If someone has done it before you, then you can be certain you have the ability to make any of your wildest dreams come true.
This is great news right! So what is getting in your way?
Is it a lack of:
Most of us can identify with at least one of these, if not a few.
The key is to make whatever you are going for an ‘absolute must’ in your life. If your goal doesn’t have a higher status than ‘it would be nice’, chances are you won’t see it through.
You can make any dream an absolute must by:
#1 Vague ideas are not compelling enough
Take time to get clarity on your goal. What is it specifically? Get healthy or make more money is not specific. Throw in some numbers, describe what getting healthy means to you and define it clearly until you will know, without a doubt, what the outcome is. It’s not rocket science, it just takes times and asking the right questions.
Clarity is key and if you don’t have it, you won’t be compelled to keep working on your goal.
#2 Stay driven by tapping into the depth of your ‘why’
Know why you want your goal and dig deep until you have a reason that is so compelling, there is no way you are going to quit. If you’re reasons aren’t strong enough, you simply will not follow through.
‘I want to make $100,000 this year because it will look good in my bank account’ is very different to, ‘when I make $100,000 this year I can finally take my dream family vacation’. Or it will allow me to employ a new team member or it will create more freedom to be with my children.
What’s the feeling you are going for, that lies underneath your goal?
#3 Plan every step so even your wildest dream becomes achievable
Break it down, break it down, break it down. It’s easy to give up on big goals when they feel overwhelming. You won’t always know every step of the way when you first begin working on your goal but get the first few actionable steps laid out in front of you. As you work on it, the next steps will reveal themselves.
As you can see the steps, write them out and break them down further until they become so easy, it’s a matter of putting one foot in front of the other.
Create the feeling that it’s possible by breaking down your big goals into little steps.
Trusting in your big dream and finding the confidence to move forward on it, will all happen when you do these 3 things.
I’d love to hear from you, what big, scary goal have you set for this year?
And if you want to get into action on your biz goals for 2021, so you can show up more, have a greater impact and make more money, I invite you to join me in the next Accelerator Experience beginning February 2021. In an intimate group of like-minded women, you’ll find the guidance, support and accountability you need to stop feeling uncertain and overwhelmed, and make it happen.
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Melissa Kay Schulz
Coffee lover, mother, salsa dancer and mindset coach for entrepreneurs.