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Do you really have what it takes to be an entrepreneur?

29/9/2019

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A little reality-check about being an entrepreneur – it’s not the easy path. Don’t believe what most people are shouting at you or showing you on social media. It’s frickin’ tough some days. You know it and I know it.
 
Yes, it can be a hugely rewarding path and yes, it can be the path to all your dreams come true. But it’s about as easy as me saying no to my morning coffee.
 
You’ll need to grow and develop certain characteristics if you are going to make it as an entrepreneur. A whole lot of resilience and a mindset for success are required, as well as a clear vision and a commitment to your passion.
 
Lots of entrepreneurs give up too soon, when the reality of building a business hits them, because they think they don’t have what it takes to be successful. What they don’t realise is that almost NOBODY is naturally gifted with these traits. 
 
Nobody just naturally has a mindset for success
 
Successful people have created themselves as an entrepreneur. They have worked on themselves, improved their mind, tried and learnt, fallen down, picked themselves up again, invested in their personal growth as well as their business.
 
It’s not always easy but it is definitely doable. They did it and they are not different to you. Don’t give up because you think you’re not good enough. Be honest with yourself about what you need to develop. Most importantly, do something to make it happen.
 
If you want to be stronger and more resilient in your business, feeling excited about it and ready to handle whatever comes your way, join me for my free livestream series, 1-3 October. In this livestream series you'll learn how to keep showing up for success no matter what. See you there, click for details.  
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In need of Inspiration - Help, my friends suck

23/9/2019

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If you’ve got big dreams and goals, chances are you’ve already come across a naysayer or two.
 
Someone in your family thinks you should ‘just be a little more realistic’. Perhaps your partner doesn’t understand why you are pouring your heart and soul into something that isn’t paying big bucks (yet). Your friends might want you to be like ‘in the good old days’ and everyone around you seems more interested in living weekends instead of living every day.
 
Sometimes our dreams and goals are too big for the people around us.
It can be lonely, frustrating and worse, it can make you begin to doubt yourself.
 
There is a simple solution though and no, you do not have to disown everybody in your life or move to another state. It’s true, you might need some new friends, some new inspiration and role models.
The good part, there are many ways to find them (see some of my suggestions below).
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I don’t want to be average!
 
Have you ever heard that you become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with? Jim Rhone (motivational speaker and mentor to Tony Robbins) totally understood the importance of staying inspired and accountable when he said this.

But sometimes our dreams and goals are too big for our current environment (aka 5 people we spend the most time with). So what do we do?
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Follow these easy steps and stay focused on your beautiful, abundant future.

  1. When people ask you about your business, change the topic. Don’t give anyone who’s not genuinely interested in supporting your success, the opportunity to kill your dreams.
  2. Choose wisely who you confide in. Do they also have big goals? Do they know anything about business? Do they care for you?
  3. Don’t take advice from anyone who isn’t expert or hasn’t already achieved what you want. Duh!
  4. Get a regular dose of inspiration and accountability with like-minded entrepreneurs. Attend seminars and workshops (I’m at Tony Robbins right now), read books from the leaders your field, join online or offline networking groups, communities, masterminds and programs. You have so much available to you, no excuses!
 
You don’t owe anybody anything and you are free to create a life and business you truly love. Don’t be average when you have every opportunity to be extraordinary.
If you'd like to grow your mindset for success in business and be surrounded by like-minded business entrepreneurs  with big goals and dreams, join one or all of my upcoming events. Reignite your excitement and take control of your future.

  • Entrepreneurs Mindset for Success - Livestream Series Online 1st-3rd October - Free 
 
  • Powerfully Showing up in Biz - 90min Masterclass - Online 9th October - Free - Registrations are open
 
  • Nurture My Biz Success Mindset - 3hr Workshop - Cairns 15 October - $47 - Registrations are open (click for full details)

Limited spaces for the Masterclass and the Workshop so book your spot today.
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The #1 thing that will change your life and business forever

13/9/2019

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What’s your biggest enemy in business? Is it the dreaded overwhelm, or perhaps procrastination, imposter syndrome, or self-doubt?
 
You might indulge in one or several of these. I know I’ve been through them all in a big way and need to keep them at bay ongoing.
 
In my experience, feeling good and knowing things are working out, kind of comes and goes. Let’s face it, building a business has a more than a few challenges attached to it.  I’ve seen someone go from totally on fire one day to crying in the corner the next (ok I have to fess up, it was me). It isn’t pretty but I want to reassure you it’s normal.
 
But you know what happens in your business when you get stuck in one of these states for too long right? At best nothing happens, at worst you go backwards.
 
If you get stuck on this emotional roller coaster it will make you very unreliable and unproductive in your business.
I work with most of my clients on this and I want to share it with you today. The number one thing that will change your life and business forever is learning to manage your emotional state. When you feel good, you will naturally take more action. It’s simple and it makes perfect sense. Unfortunately, very few are taught how to effectively do this. 
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2 easy ways to consistently feel good anywhere, anytime

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  • Add an F – yes you can use the F to swear if you want, but once you’re done with that, try this:
Feeling SHIT… add an F = SHIFT your FOCUS
Just think about something else! Catch your unhelpful thoughts and shift into thinking about something better. If you get stuck, go to gratitude. Thinking about something or someone you are grateful for instantly changes your emotional state.
  • Move your Body – this has to be the easiest way to change how you feel in any moment. Try it now: stand up, lift your chest, look up and put a big smile on your face (even if you have to force it). You can’t stay miserable for long when you stand like this. Be careful, you might start to feel confident too.
Get your energy flowing by going for a walk, dancing in your office, working out or simply strike a power pose (think superhero). Whatever you like to do, make it fun and easy for yourself.
 
Now it might a take a little practice to begin. If you’re resisting this idea because it’s too simple and your situation is too complicated, I urge you to try it out just a few times. You’ve got nothing to lose except your bad mood :)
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Getting excited about a business you truly love

6/9/2019

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​When Your vision is clear and compelling, everything else falls into place

It feels so good to know you are on track. When you are sure of where you’re headed, have great goals in place and a step by step plan to make them happen, you can’t help but feel excited. You have no trouble taking action and achieving top results. Sounds awesome right?
 
Now let’s look at the more common reality. I talk to business owners and entrepreneurs every week and many of them feel uncertain about the direction of the business, overwhelmed or confused about what’s next. It’s like they’re going through the motions waiting to see what might happen. Or if they’re just starting out, the excitement of their idea has faded as the reality of being in business kicked in. One thing they do know for sure, it’s neither exciting nor compelling.
 
The good news is, it doesn’t have to be this like this (sounds cliche I know). But seriously, anyone is capable of creating or tapping into the vision they hold for the business and this is the number one place to start anytime you feel less than excited. 

​4 sure fire ways to get excited about your business

​Don’t sit around feeling stressed or miserable, just take one of the following actions and you’ll be back on track in no time.
  • Get your vision crystal clear. If you’re feeling fuzzy, set aside and hour and really go into detail about what you want. If you need help with this, grab my free Vision for Success download .​
  • Redefine your vision as the business grows. Things change and you learn and grow alongside your business. Make sure you are checking in often and making adjustments as needed.
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  • Stay focused on your vision with dedicated 5 minutes per day reading or thinking about your dreams and goals.
  • Set proper goals in all areas of business. Well-defined goals equal clarity and without them you can’t make a plan of action. Hope is not a strategy and most importantly, when you’ve got clear goals and plans, the confusion and overwhelm goes away.

Do you know the number one cited reason for not having a clear and compelling vision?
“I haven’t thought about it”.
Ok then, get thinking and get excited because without it you’ll fall out of love with your business sooner or later. A little time invested in vision and planning now, will save you a lot of time and stress down the track.
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    Melissa Kay Schulz

    Coffee lover, mother, salsa dancer and mindset coach for entrepreneurs.

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